Past, Present, Future

All of us have heard different sayings about focusing on the resent or preparing for the future. Yeah I've heard them too. Well a lot of them have a good point so here's another little article on where to put your focus. I think many times people don't realize that they will not get the very moment they are in back. ever. period. It may be a great moment, and if so enjoy it. Many times it is a mundane or dull moment in our minds. That is fine but be present there in that moment and more can come from it then you expect. And then there are the moments that suck in life oh they will come if they haven't already and if they have come they'll come again. These are the moments we most like to forget and look past because they suck, but I say in those moments grieve, be angry, or just allow yourself to be sad. Without the moments of sadness or anger what is the point of happiness and excitement? Realizing that knowing sadness makes happiness and excitement all the better is important. This makes those moments that much better. I think this is one of the main reason that regretting anything is not worth it. No matter if it is a good or bad thing that you regret it has shaped your current experiences. All of your past has shaped who you are and what your current experiences so there is no need to regret any decision you have made. This also makes you unique and shapes your future and prepares you for your unique future. While this is all good it is why we must focus on the present and make our decisions consciously everyday. It does not matter how big the decision is either, just making the right decision for everyone is what we must strive for. This will help us enjoy our presents and shape better futures for us no matter what our past has been.